I’ve been looking at the last conversations I had with Joe and I can’t help but wonder if I had been more positive or at least poured less darkness into our discussions if it could have helped. I still don’t know exactly what happened to him but he was depressed and I don’t think talking to me helped.
Of course it’s too late to change that now, but I want to do better.
@jjg one piece of advice I have... You already realize you can't change the past, the future is ahead. I had nothing but regret when Steph's daughter died. I poured it into my feral cat project. I did what she would do if she could. She was an animal lover in every part of her soul. So deeply ingrained in who she was as a person. Once I got past the anger stage... It became clearer. I'm still trying to be the kind of person she could have been. It puts my focus into the positive.
People who like to think about what they talk about.